Im being inconsiderate ?
Today is a very unpleasant day for me. Having a bad backache since Sunday, cant even sleep well during the night because of the aching … and today, experiencing low blood before heading to work again. The sky suddenly become so bright and sparking. knowing that it’s not a good sign, head back home and rest for 30 mins before heading out for work.
Boarded the bus, & there’s no seat further down. so i seat down at the reserved seat. SO , i’ve no idea which bus stop did this 2 uncles boarded the same bus as me. 2 Elderly, one with many white hair , wearing specs and looking perfectly and physically healthy. & the other one, looking not so healthy because i think the leg is aching. i didnt gave up my seat to him because i was feeling unwell & i’m 6 months into my pregnancy now. i did saw the uncle, but there’s 3 more reserved seats beside me, why isnt anyone giving up their seats to them? BECAUSE they saw me , & i’m only 22. beside me seat a late 40s indian aunty, holding on or rather carrying her granddaughter or someone idk. The other 2 seat, late 30s? WHEN THIS UNCLE BOARDED THE BUS, i saw him. & the Indian aunty granddaughter was also seating on the reserved seat, WHY DIDNT SHE CARRY THE GRANDDAUGHTER to seat on her lap and gave up that seat to that uncle? BECAUSE THEY SAW ME & EXPECTED ME TO GIVE UP. she only carry her granddaughter to her lap after dont knw a few stops. & there’s people unboarding the bus as well, that uncle didnt wanted to seat.
So, being “KIND” hearted, the white hair uncle came forward to me & say, girl, if you’re not feeling tired, you SHOULD give that uncle seat. & he still POINTS at the reserved plate, THOUGHT THAT I WAS BLIND enough to see that. I WAS PISSED. i said back the uncle, i say uncle i not feeling well & i’m 6 months pregnant now, i need stand up? he just smiled and get of the bus. WOAH, thanks for making the whole bus of people staring at me like i’m not willing to give up my seat. & being kaypo, the indian aunty beside me said, “YA, i think you should give up your seat to that uncle” TMD. HELLOOOOOOO, where are your eyes and ears? didnt you just heard what i told the uncle? & stop shaking ! it’s making me pissed and giddy ! i told her back the same think and she just shake her head and apologize.
whats happening to this place? i know they’re trying to be nice, but there’s so many others on the reserve seat & physically well, why am i always the one getting this kind of treatment? just because i’m 22 years old? & i deserve to suffer when i’m pregnant ? or you’re telling me that because i’m young, i dont deserve to seat on the reserve seat even if i’m pregnant. what is this ?
When i’m on a crowded train or bus, people are staring at my babybump WITHOUT giving me seat okay. i didnt even say a single word. i didnt asked them to give up their seats for me, even though they’re teenagers or maybe working adults. i just stand all the way to my destination. & even if i’m pregnant , i still give up seat to those old aunties and uncles. SO IS THIS FAIR?
not only me experiencing this kind of situations , there’s also mummies-to-be share about their experience. PHYSICALLY WELL & YOUNG or WORKING adults asked the pregnant lady to give up their reserve seat when they themselves still seating down at normal seat. does all these means that those who are seating down but not reserved seat are suppose to seat all the way even when someone else needed the seat more?
i really dont understand what’s going on here anymore. people cant even differentiate what are the right and what are the wrongs. people are getting more and more selfish and demanding .
Yes, it’s public transport, so we cant complain. but where are those times when people say that we should be considerate, blahblahblah, it’s all bullshit now. there’s nothing fair in this society.
BY THE WAY, MY BABYBUMP IS CLEARLY VISIBLE.
Enough of those ranting, really still pissed me off -.- i should take a picture and do into a poster and showcase it when ever i’m seated on a reserved seat.
here’s some photos from last Sat when i accompanied bbgVivian to city plaza 😀 & our lunch together at the new mall outside Paya Lebar MRT .
settled our lunch at Mediterranean Thai. i dont think it’s worth the price and the food is not that fantastic compared with Thai express/ bali thai or sakon thai.
Ordered Prad Thai, Tom yum seafood soup & kangkong.
thn as usual , saturday will be a night out with the cliques.
Ended the night off with a movie, Tomorrowland. feeling super tired, but still, this movie is interesting ! should watch ^^
Sorry, sound so moody at the end of this post, really v sian about today. forgive me.
I’m ending the post with my hub’s selfie again. & a Video i’ve uploaded yesterday of babyE “kicking” me.
I’ve no idea why is he so happy. LOL
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