I Manifested A Slice Of Chocolate Cake

 

This video has been circulating on Facebook recently and I am so inspired by all these individual stories. Did you know that you were more likely to achieve your goals if you wrote them down, visualise them and thought about them often?

If you have been following my posts, you would recall that I was going through a dark period previously. Since then, I had written about how I broke out of that negative cycle starting with changing my perspective. I also started collecting crystals and dabbled a little in crystal healing of the emotional and mental state of mind.

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The 5 Languages of Love… What is yours?

 

I was going through old emails when I chanced upon one displaying results from an interesting quiz which I had taken. It was the Love Language quiz by Dr Gary Chapman. According to his theory, there are these five main love languages in which we express and experience love and that each person has one primary and one secondary love language. Dr Chapman suggests that to discover another person’s love language, one must observe the way they express love to others, and analyze what they complain about most often and what they request from their significant other most often. He theorizes that people tend to naturally give love in the way that they prefer to receive love.
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All About Asher’s Go Diego Go Theme Birthday Party & His Awesome Birthday Present!

I had been planning for his 2nd birthday even though it was not going to be a big affair like his first. And in a blink of an eye, it came and passed. Oh boy, how time flies! Just imagine 2 years ago, he was just a tiny wee little baby and now he is a grown up toddler with his own opinions.

We celebrated in advance on a weekend with family and close friends at our humble home. Since Go Diego Go was his favorite character of the moment, I made it the theme for his party.

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10 Things To Do To Take Charge Of Your Life, Body & Heart

#1 If You Hate Your Yob, QUIT!

Most of us are caught up in the rat race which we call Life. So much so that, at times, I find it all too meaningless. There is this endless pursuit for success, fame and fortune. Because we think with all that, naturally, happiness would follow suit. Wouldn’t it? I used to think of it this way till I realized that while yes, more money could buy me a car (because you just can’t trust the public transport system nowadays) and the KG by Kurt Geiger shoes I’ve been eyeing.

But I wasn’t going to be happy if it meant slogging away, wasting my precious time working for stupid people (and/or a corporation) just so I could afford those things which are ironically supposed to make me happy. So you wanna take charge of your life? Then you should redefine your idea of happiness. If you are that unhappy in your job then quit before it is too late.

#2 Give Yourself A Break

Life is short, there is no need to be so hard on yourself. I’m not saying stop work and spend your entire life savings on a 1 way air ticket to Bora Bora Islands and stay there forever. (Actually, yes, that is what I secretly wish I could do) But I’m saying, amidst all these madness, just stop and take a breather. Go on a holiday alone if you need to “find yourself”. You will be surprised at what you discover.

#3 Take Up A New Hobby That is Healthy

Sign up for hot yoga, zumba or perhaps get a gym membership. Studies have shown that exercise is not only good for the body but also the brain. According to PostitScienceExercise affects the brain on multiple fronts. It increases heart rate, which pumps more oxygen to the brain. It also aids the bodily release of a plethora of hormones, all of which participate in aiding and providing a nourishing environment for the growth of brain cell. Now, it is time to get those training sneakers out..

#4 Get A Makeover

Change something about yourself that you had always wanted to do but never really had the guts to do so. Get fluttery eyelash extensions if you have always wanted to look like a doll. Cut your waist length hair into a pixie do! Or maybe you had always wanted to get a tattoo. YOLO – You only live once. Of course, this must be something you had always wanted to do. Not something crazy, stupid to be done on an impulse. Then again, if it is really just a tattoo gone wrong, at least, nowadays technology in tattoo removal are so advanced, you can heave a sigh of relief there.

#5 Go Out & Meet New People

It is strange that how as we start to age, the number of friends we have start to dwindle somehow. Everyone is either too busy with their jobs, families, kids or everything else. If you find that your friend list is blank then it is time to make new ones. Websites such as Meetup.com allows folks of similar interests, backgrounds to organize meetings and make new friends while at it. Sunday brunch for pet lovers? Sign me up!

#6 Stop Dating Jerks

Too many times have we heard women crying over jerks and then swearing never to go back to these horrible men only to find them dating someone exactly like their exs the very next month. What is their problem? You see, bad boys attract women, that is why good guys finish last or sometimes never at all.

The reason of your heartache all these years is because you have been looking in the wrong places for love. Stop dating the jerks and friend-zoning the good guys. Give them a chance, you never know where that might lead to.

#7 Manage Your Finances Well

Yes, YOLO, I hear you but that is no excuse to indulging in an expensive purchase which you obviously can’t afford. There has been a shocking finding that more and more young folks under 30 are getting themselves into credit card debt. The credit card is like that magic goose which lays golden eggs whenever you run out of them. You have to pay your bills on time or else you run into debt and end up paying high interests while ruining your credit report.

This is a no brainer, just don’t spend more than you earn. Simple as that. If you are eyeing something then save up for it. There is no easy way out in this one unless you are so lucky to win the toto with a $1 ticket. (And no, I am not asking you to squander away your hard earned salary weekly on lottery.)

#8 Do Something Nice For A Stranger

Not just clicking DONATE on a charity website but go out there and take action. Sign up for a mission trip. Go abroad and help build a school. Or if you are less adventurous. Try something else on home ground like sharing an umbrella with a stranger. Help a granny with her heavy groceries. When you bring a smile to their faces, you will feel good about yourself too.

#9 Make Time For Friends & Family

Don’t get too caught up with the hustle and buzz of your work/studies. Save a friday night for a get-together with the girlfriends and have a girly sleepover together. Do a makeover for each other, who knows you better than your close girl pals, right? Swap new beauty tips, try out new makeup from each other’s cosmetic purses and basically, just have fun.

Call your parents, grandparents and arrange for dinner sometime soon. Don’t wait till it is too late to spend quality time with people whom matter.

#10 Love Yourself

There is nothing more important in taking charge of your life then being able to give yourself the love and respect you deserve. Never settle for anything less, always be good to yourself. Treat yourself with the love and respect you expect from others. As cliche as it sounds but seriously, how can you expect someone to love you if you don’t love yourself. Be at peace with yourself and take charge of your life.

The Strength Of A Woman

For decades, women have been looked upon as the weaker sex, it is only in recent years did women gain the respect they deserve. With more and more women taking up roles in politics and climbing up the ranks in corporations which were once reserved for the men only. Though, in certain societies where strong values are still placed in tradition, women are still unfortunately an oppressed lot.

From dealing with monthly period pains, sexism to childbirth, being a woman is never easy. A woman plays multiple roles in her daily life, she is a wife to her husband, a mother to her children, a team player in her corporation, a daughter to her parents and parent in laws and companion to her friends. Other times she also doubles up as a counsellor, a nurse, a cook and/or a cleaner.

To me a woman’s strength is her ability to love unconditionally. And becoming a mother has made me realize what I am actually capable of. Being pregnant made me realize what women were capable of. No one told me about the various discomforts and pains a woman would have to go through during the process. I had to find it out the hard way but that was nothing compared to giving birth and then looking after this new life you have brought into the world.

So today is International Women’s Day where we celebrate the achievements of women all over the world. We salute those who had fought for women’s rights and equality. Let us also honor the women we know and be thankful for their involvement in our lives and making that difference.

Of Love & Sex

And so Vday is over but Feb is still the month of XOXO.

How did you spend your Vday? There wasn’t any celebration included in mine, since my guy was not in town. So I spent it with my little guy, Asher. I got him some presents from Mothercare, haha, ok stop rolling your eyes.

Anyway, here are 10 articles on LUUUURRRVVVE & all things related to it that you should totally check out on MFP!

Sex According to the Zodiac Signs

Rental Boyfriends a Big Hit During Chinese New Year

When does a Man LOVE a Woman?

This Valentine’s Day Let That Special Guy Eat Your Face

How to Survive Valentine’s Day after a Break up

10 Common Relationship Problems Couples Face

Car-ma Sutra. How to have Hot Sex in Cars

Is he Good Enough for you? Take the Tests to Find out!

Why Women & Men Think Differently

Dont be a Victim of Date Rape Drugs

10 Awesome Reasons why you should be MyFatPocket.com’s Member

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My Picks on Gadgets & Love+Sex Articles from MFP!

If you have been browsing the My Fat Pocket Portal, you would find loads of interesting articles. Today, I’ll share with you my Top 5 Gadgets Articles:

#1 – Geeky Tattoos are for not Geeks only

How ’bout angry birds tattoo, anyone? Folks are getting more inspired by the IT world when it comes to their body art.

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